Today is the first day of classes. I’ve been off for a year and I feel quite rusty. In addition to the changes in instructional design, the university has also changed its Learning Management System (the software we use to deliver our online courses). This adds to the transition.

It is also a time of transition for me from a health perspective. I’m not quite finished my treatments but I will be soon. I have 3 more herceptin treatments. I’m starting to think about what is next. I am reminded about all the mental stressors I had after my first diagnosis. The year after treatment was the hardest for me, because I had to really process my diagnosis, not just from a cognitive perspective but also from an emotional one. That is where I am now.

I’m feeling strong again. In the couple of weeks I’ve done a couple of 3 hour hikes, and I’ve gotten back into VR boxing. I feel strong and that feels good. But my mind is doing its wondering. I ask myself regularly, am I doing what I want to be doing? Am I making the most of the day?

The weather is also playing a role. We are changing seasons. Fall is a nice time here, but it is also a reminder that winter is coming. As summer ends, there is a greater urgency to get outside and enjoy the sun when we have it. That pulls against any other desires I have for my time. I feel guilty when I spend a sunny day inside. I feel like I’m missing an opportunity that is finite.

Perhaps it is the finite that I am feeling. I remember about a week before my mom died, I had the realization that ‘mom hugs’ were finite. When I got up, I went to her and asked for a hug. That was the last mom hug I had. I’m glad that I thought about it and asked for it. Now I’m thinking about my life as finite. There are a finite number of sunny days left, and I should make the most of them.

What does it mean to make the most of a sunny day? I can tell you what it doesn’t mean. It doesn’t mean spending the whole day in front of my computer working on my book or my podcast. Ensuring that my courses are running smoothly is my priority. After that, it is time to get out and enjoy the sunny end of summer days.